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Friday, August 5, 2011

Are you a GOOD wife ?

Salam Cantek ,


As a busy working wife and mother , i was wondering if i'm a good spouse to my beloved husband ?..Am i being a good mother to rania ?This question always 'pops up' in my mind.Sebelum dan selepas kahwin banyak perbezaannya .Kadang- kadang berkahwin 50 tahun pun belum tentu kita mengenali pasangan kita .Frankly speaking , we just being  a couple less than 4 months , engaged for 6 months and married .There are still a lot things i don't know about my spouse.To me mariage is like learning process in University !,  u study , attend class, buat exam ,if u pass u, dapat certificate.if u failed , doesn't mean u terus tak dapat certificate.U still can work for it by repeat the paper etc.Same with marriage : kita baiki dengan ucapan MAAF ,rendahkan EGO .


It's normal untuk ber'laga ' pendapat ,i selalu berharap i dapat buat yang terbaik buat insan yang bernama suami.Tapi kita tak dapat mengelak dari pertelingkahan, kadang-kadang sebab isu yang kecil/hal orang lain pun boleh membawa masalah .Both of us strongly thinks that "communications' is the key for relationships.We talked,discuss , evaluate ,every single things.yang penting buang ego , and fikir keputusan yang paling baik!


KIta harus honest with spouse  , contoh nye if ada problem and asalnya prob dibuat oleh kita,jujur and explain why it happen -bukannya bagi alasan .
Berani mengaku kesalahan: but jangan pulak asyik say sorry sampaikan spouse kita muak and tak percaya /bosan in future.
Menyesal dan sedia berubah : Maaf seikhlasnya  dan berjanji akan berubah sikap .
Sedia dikritik: Berani menerima kritikan dan tidak mengamalkan sikap kita selalu betul .


Jika malu untuk bertentang mata untuk mengucapkan kata maaf : banyak cara lain yang boleh di pratik such as
Telefon yang canggih manggih ,sms , surat ( wow i like it so much :romantic sebab jarang org buat ) or email ( pratik by ajf : he love to write poems )


And to me sekeras-kerasnya tidak suka wujudnya org ketiga sebagai medium meminta maaf atau menyibuk kerana selalunya ia akan memburukkan lagi situasi .Perkahwinan adalah antara 2 insan suami isteri ,bukan untuk di kongsi .Alasan org zaman dahulu bergaduh , and lari dari rumah bukan lagi boleh diterima pakai pada zaman sekarang ,kita sedia maklum keluar rumah tanpa izin suami adalah =derhaka and berdosa!


Apa salahnya kalau kita sebagai isteri ,merendahkan ego kita/mengalah demi suami tercinta untuk memohon maaf.= bukan susah masuk syurga, jaga hati suami.


Ya ALLAH , ku bermohon kau berkati lah hubungan ku , perkahwinan ku sehinga akhir hayat kami.
Amin
 
I love u hubby , thank you for being a GOOD husband and father ,tq for 'Tahaning ' with my attitude ( hehe ) and work hard to give better life for us .
Saya sayang suami saya.

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